A lot of people believe that having an affair with someone of the opposite gender before marriage is a sin. This is why some women who come from a good background get married as virgins.
Relationship therapist, Blessing CEO has opposed the idea of people about s€x before marriage being a sin. According to her, the first child that came from having an affair before marriage is considered a blessing, and therefore, it is questionable to see it as a sin.
Many would argue that the statement that Blessing CEO made shows that having an affair before marriage should only be determined by the choice of the individual.
However, some men do not like to get married to ladies that have been promiscuous in the past since they are jealous. This is why values must be upheld despite different views about having an affair before marriage being a sin or not.